A fun thing about dating rejection is trying to square that away with whatever good things they say about you (e.g., “you’re a good guy” or “I’m sure whoever ends up with you is lucky”) and not take it personally that they don’t want anything to do with you. I’m sensitive to this type of… Read More Dating Rejection (or: A Surface-Level, Navel-Gazing Pout Session)
I’m at my most honest when I’m writing. It’s my way of transmitting what’s in my head through my fingers; I find it easier than pushing my thoughts through the dozens of filters straining my feelings through my mouth. For a shy, introverted, inhibited person like myself, writing is like drawing a full-color, high-definition, bass-booming… Read More Me And My Writing
Nearly 11 months after the previous mix CD/Spotify playlist in the main series, I settled upon a grouping of 22 songs totaling 78 minutes. But the time leading up to the final selections was filled with shifting priorities, indecisiveness, and being in a negative headspace. … Read More MP3 Mix 15 – ANOTHER One.
For those of you new to the blog, I’ve been rediscovering, archiving (via Spotify) AND creating old and new mix CDs and playlists during the pandemic. (This, along with shaving my head in lieu of going to the barber, has been a subconscious emotional and physical slide into my early 20s.) The projects were welcome… Read More This Mix F**ks, Or A Playlist of Dance/Electronic Music
Well, it’s true.
I miss you.… Read More I Bet You Think This Blog Is About You
Full-on boning Grinding Hump their foot Hand sex Open-mouth kissing Put a finger in their nose Dry humping Open-mouth kissing while groping butt(s) Put a toe in their butt Kissing on the lips Kissing on the cheek Daggering Holding hands Arm around the shoulder Lick their armpit Whispering in their ear Hugging High-five Ruffle their… Read More Types of PDA, Ranked
Legally Bland Keeping Up With Kim West’s Writs Kimlock The Praktice Kalabasas Law Kim & Kanye: Law and Disorder
I had been enjoying seeing the movie about me, “Green Book” and all the attention I’ve been getting for my time driving around a Black (Editor’s Note: musician Don Shirley). But I’m facing some “backlash” on the internet — whatever that means — because the story seemed racist. What’s racist about a white guy driving… Read More Guest Column: I Didn’t Respect Blacks Until I Got My Own Black
Diary of a Genial Black Man 